Watch out for…
… they are everywhere and often, they are not even aware.
They will shower you with compliments, kindness and gifts.
They are charming, loving, and use their wits to make you feel so safe and warm that you won’t see any arising storm.
Suddenly, when you are wrapped up in their every good actions and words, things will shift and they will truly hurt.
They will abuse, blackmail, stalk and gaslight you to change you to someone who is constantly anxious and blue.
Nothing you do will protect you from their every need to take and take and take till you won’t anymore feel the ground below your feet.
Even if you tell and yell that they need to stop, they will keep going because they want to stay on top.
They have learned to deflect any responsibility because their view of reality is manicured, distorted and perfected, so it will always work out in their favor as suspected.
Watch out for them. They were once so kind and nice but will blindside you and you will pay the price.
All you can do is to run away and lay low and no longer be their prey until you are seen as a bore and there is nothing more for them to score.
Ignore them until no signal comes ashore no more for sure and they won’t lure you on to destruction. You alone are the cure.
You are now stronger, wiser and can cross them from your lists.
They are the real pandemic of this planet - narcissists.
Written by @MaryKolende
